I don't want to sound like an old lady who discovers internet just new but...

...but these things matter.

Sometimes we should really think through about this. For example my severalizing question is that, what if a very bad thing happened to that person, all of a sudden, maybe an accident, what would I feel after, is there anything left to say that I didn't before, just because I was too shy about it or the circumstances just weren't right? What an awful feeling must have been!

I wish people just can be able to manage theirselves better and be more honest about their feelings, 

before it's too late.